B. Stop Overthinking
Stop Overthinking
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- Author: Nick Trenton
- ASIN: B08XPQL61B
- Reference: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08XPQL61B
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Highlights
Thought is not an enemy. Our brain is an extraordinarily helpful tool, but when we overthink, we only undermine its power. — location: 115
the causes of overthinking are seldom the focus of overthinking. — location: 125
Marcus E. Raichle is a neuroscientist who coined the term “default mode network,” which can be thought of as everything the brain does when it does nothing in particular. When no task dominates, the brain ends up mulling over its place in the world and processes and reprocesses social information and memories in the interests of increasing survival. In this way, the brain could be said to have evolved to survive, not to be happy. — location: 145
the brain is ultimately spending as much time stewing over what is not happening as it is over what is happening. What’s more, doing so generally leads to unhappiness. — location: 153
this is still just a question of probability. There are no “anxiety genes” that destine you to a fixed fate you can never escape. — location: 177
Is overthinking genetic? Yes. But it’s not only genetic. Life still weighs in on that seventy-four percent, which means that environment may play a bigger role. — location: 184
Many of us have become habitual overthinkers because it gives us the illusion that we’re doing something about the problem we’re overthinking about. — location: 188
Lastly, our daily habits can feed our anxieties and result in overthinking in subtle but significant ways. — location: 199
genetic predisposition + stressful precipitating events = overthinking. — location: 206
“Eustress” — location: 209
hypostress, — location: 212
to flourish, we don’t need a stress-free environment, we need one that’s optimally suited to our needs. — location: 213